Saturday, December 31, 2022

Year in Review

#220

This year saw visits to 2 international places, couple of within-India trips, one cross-continent move, and several noteworthy events and moments. Here are a few highlights:

First Quarter
  1. Visited Dubai Expo
  2. Binge-watched the MCU Defenders series - Daredevil, Jessica Jones, Iron Fist, Luke Cage, Defenders, and finally caught up with all pending Marvel movies (Guardians of the Galaxy and Ant Man, among others)
Second Quarter
  1. Completed all lessons in the first (beginner) unit of French in Duolingo
  2. Launched an SVP goal at work, officially transitioned into a managerial role
  3. Went for a 3-day trek to Dayara-Bugyal
Third Quarter
  1. Drove to Bangalore for meet-ups with several relatives
  2. Read 10+ books in 3 months
  3. Interviewed for a team in AWS
  4. Visited Kolkata right before Durga Puja festivities
Fourth Quarter
  1. Relocated from Chennai to Seattle
  2. Explored nearby places, went on a hike to Quinault trail at Olympic National Park
  3. Signed up for Pure Barre pilates and attended 4 classes
  4. Moved into a new apartment and setup the house
  5. Wrote and published 20 blog posts this year

As I look back at 2022, it gives me a boost of energy and motivation to make wishlist items happen for 2023.

Wishing you all a wonderful and adventurous new year!


Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Board Game Night

#219

Friday nights are now board game nights!

Finally got to learn and play Catan, after having heard about it so much from all my NRI friends. It's nice having known a group of people right from the time we landed so we could start playing all sorts of games from Week 1 itself. Uno, Scrabble, Catan, Exploding Kittens, Sequence, and previously played games we'd learnt at The Board Room Cafe in Mylapore, Chennai. 

Once we learnt the rules and played with them initial couple of rounds, we soon started adding our own twists and customizations to make each game more fun. For instance, adding a couple of characters like Jester, from the online game Among Us into Mafia, and tweaking each round with a different rule, such as each Mafia won't know who the other Mafia is, and more!

Soon, friends of friends started getting added to our little group until we had a large enough crowd of 6 or more to play even more games that required 5+ players that we couldn't play before.

The best part about the board game nights were playing with the perfect group of people who were no only open to learning and trying out different genres of games but were also super competitive, smart, and sporting - we got to play abstract games like Dixit, card games like Poker, strategy games like Azul and Santorini, and Word games like Word on the street and Codenames - both online as well as the actual board game in-person.


Monday, December 19, 2022

Apartment Hunting

#218

We went house hunting in Seattle and Bellevue and visited a bunch of apartments. Here, apartment refers to a house within a building whereas 'house' refers to an independent house, usually a duplex.

Day 1, we visited 3 apartments - the first and the second were older homes, located slightly interior, thus were in quieter neighborhoods and had electric stovetops. We had done 'virtual tours' online, which allows us to walkthrough the house and see what each room would look like, so it was good to see it was similar in person too. Rent everywhere for 2b2b (here instead of 2BHK they say 2 bed 2 bath) was $3500 minimum with an additional $150-200 for utilities (water, electricity, internet, gas if applicable), per month. All kitchens here are modular, meaning they already come with a microwave oven, grill oven, refrigerator, stove top, and a dishwasher. And the apartments also come with a washer and dryer. These things would have to be bought if it were a house.
 
Apartment 3 was much newer - it was a high-rise apartment located near Amazon buildings and in the heart of SLU (South Lake Union). We visited the 19th floor to look at an empty apartment and the 30th floor for a model house. This place had 40 floors, with the 41st being a massive closed rooftop and an open skydeck, with a picturesque view. We liked this place the best - it had a gas stovetop (yay!) and looked the most spacious for a 2b2b with 987 sq.ft. It had the maximum amount of storage, especially in the kitchen, great set of amenities, and felt the most secure. 

One issue we saw in all the apartments here was lack of extra space to keep things, like a loft or an attic. That's one caveat of staying in an apartment vs an independent house, but the advantage is getting help for things needing repair, usually free of charge, done by the maintenance team, whereas in an independent house you are on your own for everything. All the apartments also mentioned that if we wanted to install a bidet (aka health faucet aka toilet spray), we would have to install it ourselves and bear damage costs, if any. 

In SLU, which is close to Downtown, parking charges seemed over the top at ~$250-300 per month! Luckily for us, we like walking and there are a lot of places nearby that are walkable, including the rental car place. A lot of known acquaintances also follow the same and do not own cars due to parking hassle.

Overall a new experience in terms of what to expect when looking for an apartment here. Visited 3 apartments across 2 cities in 1 day - 7-8k steps in total. 


Sunday, November 20, 2022

El Supermercado

#217


Or ‘le supermarché’, if you will.

We have a WFM aka Whole Foods Market, which is two blocks away, and is 30000 sq. ft. huge! We’ve only been there a couple of times now and have to combat decision fatigue every time we visit the store, though it’s getting into a more auto-pilot mode if it’s a repeat ingredient. From the super long aisles to the varied assortment of each type of item to the categories of different items (fresh produce vs processed vs frozen veg) to the self-checkout mechanism - this place warranted at least an hour’s worth of time even if our list only had a handful of items in it. 

The various departments in this massive store included - grocery and produce (fresh fruits and veggies), processed aisles for pureed tomato, soups, and sauces, frozen food (cooked stuff like frozen pizzas, frozen Mac ’n’ cheese, frozen burritos), frozen vegetables (in chopped format), several compartments in the refrigerator for different kinds of cheese, bakery and dairy items (separate compartment for vegan dairy products), cold (fizzy) drinks, and more. There were also body care items, beer and wine aisles, cereal aisle, meat and seafood, vitamin supplements and protein powders, and more!

A lot of the time went in figuring out which of the obscure-sounding regular items were the closest to Indian vegetables. For instance, there were red, white, and yellow onions - all bigger than the ones we get at home (see image for size comparison) - the red ones are the ones that resemble the purple-ish onions we get in India, while yellow onions are a tad sweeter, and white is mainly used for soup (like French onion soup). Similarly with tomatoes, you had tomatoes on the vine (more expensive, but also contained higher water content so probably had to be juiced and used), organic tomatoes, beefsteak tomatoes (one of the largest varieties), cherry tomatoes, slicer tomatoes, and the Roma tomatoes, which is what we identified as the best alternative for our Desi naatu thakkali (tomatoes that are just the right amount of sweet and sour, whether they feature on a sandwich or in a gravy veg or in rasam/sambar). Lemons were as big as oranges, and of course, the corresponding lemon squeezer were bigger too. The Indian lemons are known as limes here, are greener, sourer, and more expensive.

Buying frozen, pre-washed and pre-chopped veggies in order to save time while cooking during weekdays was a good piece of advice we got. It indeed was helpful as I was able to make sambar rice and other similar one-pot dishes with veggies and rice in under 15-20 minutes. The only caveat is remembering to keep the frozen veggies out to defrost for at least 10-12 minutes. 

After 2-3 trips to WFM, we behaved like slightly seasoned shoppers, managing to pick the right kinds of fruits, veggies and dairy from the lot. Yogurt with 1% milk fat in a green container, as opposed to the orange, seemed like the closest to Indian curd, did not try making curd from milk yet due to the subzero average daily temperatures. With the colors, we could also relate to the green vs orange packets we use to get from the milkman, green meaning lower fat or cream content than the orange (blue -> green -> orange -> brown, order of lowest to highest cream percentage).

Another thing we had to newly learn apart from the above was the art of scanning to bill each item, paying for it, and efficiently packing it in bags (each bag costs 8 cents, so we started carrying our own reusable bags). In the self-checkout kiosk, scanning the barcode for labelled items got easier but for fruits and veggies, we had to weigh them on a scale after selecting the right item. It was slightly trickier initially because we kept going back to the aisle to figure out whether the avocados we added to our cart were medium hass, large hass, or organic medium or large hass avocados - each priced differently! Self help is usually the best help, but sometimes we had to ask for assistance, especially when we were blocking the line behind us trying to fumble with things for the first time.

All in all, it felt like a good experience actually going in-person to the supermarket and handpicking each item after 2+ years of ordering everything online via Swiggy’s Instamart. The bonus was an additional ~2-3k steps per visit!    


Friday, November 18, 2022

Gum Wall


#216 



We visited the Pike Place Market recently, which is one of the main tourist attraction spots in Seattle. In one corner, we entered an alley known as the Gum Wall. Inspired by the Bubblegum Alley in California, this brick wall covered in used chewing gum was unintentionally created in the 1990s. Downtowners (and others) would come and “decorate” the wall with their colorful, bubblelicious chiclets!

In 2009, this place was listed as one of the top 5 germiest tourist attractions in the world. In 2015, the Pike Place cleaning authorities spent 100+ hours to clean 1000+ kgs of gum, but people covered the wall almost immediately post the cleanup. As you can see in the photo, might make for a good photo and attraction but might be best to visit there with a mask and get out of there as quickly as possible. 

In conclusion - Ewww! 

Tuesday, November 15, 2022

Kitchen Attempts

#215


Faced with a new kitchen layout since day 1 - daunting but not so daunting. I was excited to try my hand at cooking in a new country with different produce and ingredients. Thanks to a colleague who helped us with an initial lot of Indian items like turmeric, tempering ingredients (mustard seeds, cumin seeds), ghee (clarified butter), tur dal (TIL it’s called ‘pigeon peas’ in English), basmati rice, sesame oil, tamarind, dosa batter, and shredded coconut, we were able to make home food for a few days such as sambar rice, mixed vegetable with gravy, rasam, and tomato onion dal. Going to the supermarket (there’s a WFM aka Whole Foods Market a block away) was also an equally time-consuming task due to the sheer number of choices of every single thing, but let me save that for a different post.

Initial days, it took me almost an hour to figure out what pots and pans to use to cook (we had limited cookware at first) for which item, where to cook each item (there was a grill oven, a microwave oven, the stovetop - gas, not electric, thankfully, and an electric rice cooker), and how long things would take (good to keep enough buffer in case things don't work out or take way longer, which they do most of the time). So, the first day, it took around 50 minutes to cook 1 mixed vegetable, rice, and dal but two days later, I was able to make mixed vegetable, rice, dal, and rasam in under 30 minutes. I went with the same menu to get accustomed to making the same thing in lesser time. 

Apart from the new appliances and veggies, the knifes were slightly different too - sharper, but sturdier. Felt like I was in a Masterchef kitchen operating the cutlery. I was also able to make decent small-ish dosas using a pan (due to lack of tawa/flat pan). We were able to enjoy yummy dosas (see above image) for breakfast for a week with home made molagapodi (aka gunpowder, a dry-spiced powder made from mixed dals and chilies).

Overall, it is slightly different to cooking in India because of more appliances to help with simultaneous prep and more space in this house, but like I said earlier, it takes longer to cook despite the parallelization, probably due to the cold weather.

P.S. I had titled this post ‘kitchen struggles’ but thought of renaming to a more positive word to give myself motivation to keep trying. Experimenting is fun!


Thursday, November 10, 2022

Sirens Galore

#214


One of the things we had to get accustomed to here (apart from pretty much everything else) was the sound of sirens every 30 to 60 minutes. Be it an ambulance, a police vehicle, or a firetruck, involving one of what they call the PD (Police Department), FD (Fire Department), or MR (Medical Response). They all have similar-sounding alarms. 

At first, you become conscious to every siren but over time, habituation kicks in. Habituation, in psychology, is defined as “growing accustomed to a situation or stimulus, thereby diminishing its effectiveness”, or a more technical definition: "habituation is the reduction of a behavioral response to a stimulus after repeated presentations of that stimulus". Even while WFH, people in meetings are used to it by now.

One of my colleagues mentioned that people from the lake front migrated to the interiors during the pandemic, which led to the Downtown area becoming more unsafe in the recent times, perhaps why we hear more frequent sirens nowadays despite staying southwest of that area. 

Fun fact: most sirens have a one-mile radius, but some louder sirens can be heard from two miles away!

Random note:
The washing machine here sings for a while when it’s over. Probably its way of showing happiness for having completed its job! :) 

Stay safe!

Sunday, November 6, 2022

Sleepy in Seattle


#213

After several nights of contemplation, and a year of trying to get a work permit to work in the US, we’ve finally made it! Made the move from a 35 degree Celsius (95 degree F), sunny city to a 50 degree Fahrenheit (10 degree Celsius), rainy, gloomy one. Battling few days of jet lag, “midnights” literally “became my afternoons[2]. Though the entire day looks and feels pretty much the same, we needed to get our sleep times fixed and start working from Monday onwards.

Almost everything’s different - from the size of the dishes to their flavors (yes I’m gonna type in American spelling from now on) to the water to the spellings to the weather to the way people greet each other to the culture and diversity to the prices to the socket type to the driving direction to the metric system and several other things! There are fun parts and there are challenging parts. How to have fun while tackling the challenging parts is the main objective.

In our first week, we tried Mexican cuisine at Chipotle, Thai at Thai Ginger, Italian at Tutta Bella, Pizza at Zeek’s, and a vegan salad at Evergreens. No matter what, Chipotle will always rank #1, in terms of the price, portion, and flavor, probably because of its similarity to Indian cuisine (rice, beans, spices and sauces, spice level, and veggies). We're averaging 10,000 steps a day just by walking to different places - as long as you have your woolen gear on, good shoes, and the will and proclivity to walk, you will enjoy exploring the city. We shopped at Target and WFM (Whole Foods Market), spending the first thirty minutes in bewilderment of new kinds of things like rainbow carrots and new types of fruits and veggies, and the latter thirty fumbling with self-checkout. Well, there's a first time for everything, and following John 16:24 ("Ask, and you shall receive"), we have asked for help, and promptly received useful assistance and gotten by.

Week 1 verdict: so far so good. Accomplished quite a number of things related to house and work setup, meeting a number of people, and purchasing winter wear. Looking forward to a more productive Week 2.


Notes:
1. The title references Sleepless in Seattle, a rom-com movie starring Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan
2. “Midnights become my afternoons” - 2nd line in Taylor Swift’s song ‘Anti-Hero’ from her latest album Midnights


Tuesday, September 13, 2022

APJ ACK


#212


Last week, I read a wonderful Amar Chitra Katha comic on Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam. Here are the key takeaways he had at different stages in his life, and was influenced by various people, who helped shape his life values:


  1. From childhood itself, he kept asking a lot of questions based on what he observed, like - “Why do birds fly”? (This one question fascinated him the most and was what led to him enrolling in Aeronautical engineering in MIT)

  2. He had an immense desire for knowledge and respect

  3. An incident in school where the teacher brought in divide but the students’ parents fostered unity led to all faiths and religions becoming one in his mind

  4. He learnt to earn on the side at a young age by selling newspapers at 6 AM, before school. He worked after school too while his friends spent time playing games

  5. At home, his brother-in-law Jamal encouraged him to learn and answered all his questions patiently while at school and university, he had teachers who pushed him to excel by setting supposedly impossible deadlines

  6. He met a monk in Rishikesh who helped him gain peace - this was reassuring when he grappled with failures of his rocket launches

  7. When a friend saved his life from an explosion, he promised himself he would make his life worthy of being saved

  8. He got the opportunity to meet Dr. Vikram Sarabhai at NASA but it was Prof. Sathish Dhawan (Project Director after Dr. Sarabhai passed away) who showed what it means to be a true leader by taking the blame on himself when the team failed but giving Kalam the entire credit for successes

  9. When Dr. Kalam led a team later in life, he learnt about establishing trust and enabling teamwork

  10. Being a lifelong learner, he lived his childhood dream much later in life of learning to fly an aircraft - and at 74, he was the oldest Indian to fly one

  11. A child at heart

  12. An ordinary man even after being elected the President of India - he once swapped a royal chair, the ‘throne’, with an ordinary one to blend with the common man

  13. He always liked meeting with children because he believed they are the future of country


“Be active! Take on responsibility! Work for the things you believe in. If you do not, you are surrendering your fate to others.”


“The reality of your own nature should determine your speed. If you become restless, speed up. If you become tense and high-strung, slow down.”


“I strongly believe that teachers need to tell students about great lives and make children understand their history and heritage.”



Thursday, August 18, 2022

Life is Like...


#211


Analogies are fun!

At a workshop I attended more than a decade ago, I recall this one instructor asking us to come up with analogies for "life". He'd keep prompting "life is like"? And for each response, he'd ask why?

For instance, one girl said life is like an ice cream. Why? Because you gotta eat it before it melts!

Similarly, to tap into my creativity, I came up with a few of what I think "life is like". 

Life is like... a jack in the box - sometimes it just springs on you!

Life is like... a washing machine - it spins and twists you but you come out brighter

Life is like... an infinite game - there are known and unknown players, the rules keep changing, and your objective is to stay and keep playing


What all do you think life can be compared to? Feel free to post in the comments your versions of "life is like".

Monday, August 15, 2022

Letter Writing


#210


In school, we were introduced to formal and informal letter writing. The knowledge back then, gained especially in formal letter writing, still helps me today when writing formal emails at work. Found a couple of letters I'd written in 8th grade as part of an English assignment:

Informal Letter WritingWrite an informal letter to a close friend of yours giving a vivid description of your trip to Mysore in April 2008.


<Address - 3 lines>

<Line break>

<Date as: 24th June, 2008>


Dear <Friend>,

        I hope this letter finds you in the best of health and spirits. I apologize to you for not sending a reply after I received yours. There's something that I'm eager to tell you. Do you remember what I told you about my school excursion to Mysore? Well, we went a month ago and had the best of times.

        It was fun travelling by train with friends. We talked, ate, played cards, sang, and even listened to music. We were told by the instructors that in Mysore, we would be visiting various temples and other religious places. At each temple, we had guides explaining to us about the place and also giving a little extra information about them.

        We visited the Brindavan Gardens, and also had a view of the spectacular musical fountain show. The Mysore Silk Factory was a place really worthwhile to see. We were shown how the saris were being made. We clicked snaps in the Belur and Halebedu Temples, which had extraordinary carvings of Gods and Goddesses. The Jayaramachandra Art Gallery had three floors of a variety of paintings.

        When we were taken to the Shravanabelagola Temple, we were completely exhausted and had a tough time climbing the flight of around seven hundred steps in the scorching heat of the sun. The Mysore Palace was a lovely place to see. Similarly, we enjoyed going to Tipu's Summer Palace. We enjoyed ourselves to the fullest. I really wished you could have also been there to have a lovely experience like this.

        The next time you have your holidays, I hope we can plan and visit lovely places like those I went to in Mysore.

        Please convey my regards to your parents.


<right side>

Yours lovingly,


Sriya




Formal letter writing: Write a letter to the Editor of a local newspaper, complaining about the electricity failure in your town during the examination days. You must explain in your letter the inconvenience caused to students and request the competent authorities to restore the current immediately.



<Address - 3 lines>

<Line break>

<Date as: 19th July, 2008>


The Editor,

B. C. Acharya Marg,

Chembur, Mumbai - 400071


Sir,

    I am a resident of <home address>, Chembur. In this area, I face an electricity problem due to which I am unable to study. Since my SSC exams will be approaching the following week, it is very annoying to have the current going erratically. This inconvenience of inconsistent power failure disrupts my concentration.

    I request you to take steps regarding this matter as soon as possible since it has been going on for the past five days. Kindly attend to it at the earliest. I will be thankful to you if I could get to study in peace within a day or two.

There was an urgent need to highlight this matter in your esteemed newspaper. I sincerely hope that the concerned authorities will take note of this problem and rectify the situation immediately.


Yours truly,


Sriya Ganesh



Sunday, August 14, 2022

Scout v Soldier Mindset


#209


In Julia Galef’s book, The Scout Mindset, she talks about cultivating a habit of improved reasoning, seeking out blind spots, and changing one’s course after recognizing mistakes. She distinguishes between a soldier, who is trained to defend their own ideas aggressively whereas a scout who leads the soldiers has to adopt an exploratory mindset.


I learnt about this concept (Thanks again, Dad!) towards the end of 2021 when I was considering transitioning into a managerial role at work. We made a side-by-side comparison chart of how being an IC (Individual Contributor) aka engineer is more like a solider mindset whereas becoming a manager would involve adopting a scout mindset:


Software Development Engineer (SDE)

Software Development Manager (SDM)

Direct task action

GTD through others

Simple planning, scheduling

Multi-level planning, iterations

Fewer dependencies (only tech)

People (complex), multiple dependencies

Well-defined goals, completion, criteria ('J')

Fuzzy at times, undefined or ill-defined, evolving goalpost ('P')

Hard skills > soft skills

Soft skills >> hard skills

Sense of accomplishment, short-time cycle, many small wins

Always more to do, varying time cycles, a few big wins

Mostly soldier mindset: "kill it"

Combination of soldier and scout mindset: "find, explore"


While this has helped me get comfortable in and grow into the manager role, I’ve realized that in general, in life, by adopting the scout mindset, we can learn to be more enlightened, curious learners, less confrontational, and make better decisions.


Saturday, August 13, 2022

Why do Superhero movies exist?


#208


I know now.

After every other episode of Marvel's Daredevil and Iron Fist with amazingly and cleanly choreographed fight scenes, I had this newfound energy to be supercharged and finish pending work quickly and efficiently, with no decrease in my stamina level. After binging on so many Marvel movies and series, I can't help but wonder in amazement how creative Stan Lee was wrt types of superhero characters - from superhuman strength to impenetrable skin to producing super-elastic webs to a blind superhero (good diversity there) to Captain Marvel (gender diversity) to tools, armours, and AI that transform a common man into a superhero, to variation in powers like invisibility, size change, elemental abilities (Human Torch, The Thing), to many many more such characteristics!

There's this video where Stan Lee explains that because Spiderman's costume is fully covered, kids can imagine him to be anything according to their imagination wrt skin colour, gender, and more. What happened by accident turned out to be a DEI brownie point!

Whether or not we like watching superhero movies, we can always take the concept and make it our own. May all of us find our inner superhero ability and channel it rightly to do good in this world.


Friday, August 12, 2022

The Good Witch


#207


Stumbled upon this show 'The Good Witch' by accident - and it turned out to be a happy accident, thanks to Netflix's 'play something' feature (which is great to cure boredom BTW). Akin to aimlessly, mindlessly flipping through TV channels with the remote. Only here, the recommendations are tailored to your watch content (I think). Finally a 'goody-goody' show, but not in an ostentatious manner. I've been yearning to watch something like this for a long time now. There are enough dark, gory shows out there. Even superhero series ensure they show at least one horrifying murder scene in gruesome, excruciating detail. The Bold Type series was 'good' too, but a little too much drama and emotion for me to binge-watch peacefully (although I'll admit I did end up binge-watching the entire series LOL).

However, The Good Witch is just plain good. That's it. Easy on the mind. Easy on the heart. Filled with sweeter-than-honey positive quotes, things always having a way of working out as a win-win, and happy endings, this show is exactly the relaxing, soothing stuff I need right now. It has helped me reinforce my belief that great things are coming my way and if faced with hurdles, there's a reason for each obstacle which I will not only overcome but come out as a better human being once I tackle them. For those who haven't read The Secret or Robin Sharma's books, this show can serve as a replacement for the messages in those without you having to read.

This show also reminded me of the good ol' Miley Cyrus songs I used to listen to on repeat way back in 2010-2011, loaded with optimistic phrases (see my previous post on these wonderful lyrics). Nowadays, Sia helps me boost my confidence and self-esteem with her "I'm unstoppable, I'm a Porsche with no brakes" and "I'm free to be the greatest here tonight". It's so empowering listening to such songs sung by strong, feisty women. They uplift my mood with their catchy tunes and arousing lines.

May we all find our 'Inner Strength' to 'Climb' and get to where we want to go and be who we want to be.


Song References:

Friday, August 5, 2022

Bits of Advice


#206

I read an article written by KK (no, not that one). Kevin Kelly's 103 bits of advice - from which I made note of 66 of them. Sharing my top 13 - words of wisdom which either resonate with me today or I will want to resonate with in the future.


On yourself:

Speak confidently as if you are right, but listen carefully as if you are wrong.


You can be whatever you want, so be the person who ends meetings early.


You will be judged on how well you treat those who can do nothing for you.


You are as big as the things that make you angry.


Your growth as a conscious being is measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations you are willing to have.


If your opinions on one subject can be predicted from your opinions on another, you may be in the grip of an ideology. When you truly think for yourself your conclusions will not be predictable.



On 'others':


You see only 2% of another person, and they see only 2% of you. Attune yourselves to the hidden 98%.


It’s possible that a not-so smart person, who can communicate well, can do much better than a super smart person who can’t communicate well. That is good news because it is much easier to improve your communication skills than your intelligence.


You’ll get 10x better results by elevating good behaviour rather than punishing bad behaviour, especially in children and animals.



On good deeds:


If you stop to listen to a musician or street performer for more than a minute, you owe them a dollar.


Courtesy costs nothing. Lower the toilet seat after use. Let the people in the elevator exit before you enter. Return shopping carts to their designated areas. When you borrow something, return it better shape (filled up, cleaned) than when you got it.


Making art is not selfish; it’s for the rest of us. If you don’t do your thing, you are cheating us.



On staying curious:

The chief prevention against getting old is to remain astonished.




Thursday, August 4, 2022

Blog Theme Planning


#205


PMI (plus, minus, interesting) is a brainstorming, decision-making and critical thinking tool developed by Dr. Edward de Bono. I used this mechanism to evaluate what I should write about in my blog:



Theme

Description

Plus (P)

Minus (M)

Interesting (I)

Sequential

Take up notes from Evernote one by one and write about whatever topic is mentioned in it

- No need to think of a new topic each time

- No need for research if I have captured enough info

- Additional research and review required in case of partially captured items

- May lead to forced writing of an uninteresting topic

- Good test to see if I can enable myself to write about anything at any time and do a decent job at it

Happy topics

Write about pleasant ideas, kind thoughts

- Improved mood/feeling after writing positive posts

- May lead to forced writing at times

- Posts may end up being too cheesy, mushy

- How many diary entries and morning pages can be digitised in this manner?

- Can I ensure better consistency by keeping length of such posts short as they’re easy to write about and may not have a logical conclusion?

30-day challenges

Fixed number of either random or alphabetical posts based on a topic/theme 

- Good opportunity to harness power of constraints

- Will be able to achieve higher number of posts in shorter duration to keep up with the goal 

- May be tough to keep up, especially if A-Z

- Forced writing/force fit at times

- Lots of thinking and planning, even more for A-Z

- How can I make this fun for me and my readers?

Book reviews

Short posts on reviews of books I’ve read

- Can start by justifying Goodreads rating of already-read books, thus building one more social media apps connection

- Time consuming to carefully draft a positively worded review for each book

- Can I turn this into an opportunity to start sharing blog screenshots as quotes on Insta and Twitter, thus reviving both?



Verdict:

After doing this, I finally went ahead with an option I didn’t even include in this list!

I went ahead with a mood-based option, wherein I open my laptop and go: “What do I feel like writing about today?” By implementing the Hemingway bridge method, I make it easier on myself to do this exercise after publishing that day’s post itself so I can immediately start writing the next day instead of spending time thinking, planning, and drafting an outline.


Have you tried PMI? If so, where has it helped you?



Wednesday, August 3, 2022

Developing clarity of thought


#204


After acquiring crucial skills such as speed reading, touch typing, speed-writing via shorthand, it’s time to slow down. In fact, slowing down eventually allows me to move faster.


Let me explain.


The goal earlier was to sift through things and jot down everything as quickly as possible so I may revisit the material at a later date. The new, current goal is to invest time in the first go itself so I only capture summarized notes based on what I’d want to retrieve in the future, thereby saving more time. Same with speech. I used to talk faster but end up saying several umms and ahhs in between. I am consciously attempting to speak more slowly, more deliberately, thus achieving better articulation with almost-zero fillers, also resulting in the listener forming a better understanding more quickly. Likewise, typing a tad slower reduces the number of times I hit Backspace.


Another area I am working upon to develop clarity of thought is when talking to myself, either using the Feynman technique to explain something I’ve learned, or brainstorming on a topic to disambiguate a problem or generate ideas. The objective here is to ensure I complete my words, sentences, and thought process to not only bring things to a logical closure but also articulate the initial thought or idea into a complete point, and then follow it up with questions and potential clarifications, fostering meaningful dialogue. 


When writing, rather than starting from scratch and not knowing where I’d end up, I begin with an outline, add bullet points to each section, and come back with fresh eyes later on to create the first draft, which I then review and make iterative edits. My note to self is to keep in mind or on paper what I want to say, end with, and include points and aspects in the form of a mental model or a sequential flow. This approach also helps me keep track of the ultimate goal in a meeting or when reviewing a document. 


Lastly, journalling has been an effective mode of furthering a thought. As Benjamin Hardy describes - Writing goals makes you more likely to work on them. Writing self-feedback makes you more likely to improve yourself. Journalling can lead to creative breakthroughs, solidify insights, and crystallize your ideas.  


All-in-all:

  • Journal for personal growth and mental creation

  • Practice makes better, Miss Toastmaster 

  • It's okay to slow down to move faster!



Tuesday, August 2, 2022

Hemingway Bridge


#203


I came across this phrase in Tiago Forte’s BASB (Building a Second Brain).


The author Ernest Hemingway, when writing, would follow this system wherein he would call it a day the moment he knew what he wanted to write next, thus creating a ‘bridge’ between the previous day and the next.


Since he already had a place to start writing from the following day, he did not have to face the fearsome blank page the next morning.


This is similar to the Zeigarnik effect I was introduced to, today (Thanks, Dad!), named after the psychologist Bluma Zeigarnik.


He postulated that people tend to remember and act upon interrupted or incomplete tasks more easily than finished ones, which he identified by studying waiters who ended up remembering unpaid orders better than paid ones. No wonder Netflix makes billions off of people binging on series that deliberately end episodes on cliffhangers (e.g. Suits).


I am now yet another successful test subject of this effect, or rather, a proponent of the Hemingway Bridge, as I wrote the key points for this post right after publishing my previous post and found, to my delight, how easily I was able to complete drafting this post today.


With this newfound momentum for restarting my regular blog posts, I will now go write what I might want tomorrow’s post to be about. 


Ciao!