Saturday, December 31, 2022

Year in Review

#220

This year saw visits to 2 international places, couple of within-India trips, one cross-continent move, and several noteworthy events and moments. Here are a few highlights:

First Quarter
  1. Visited Dubai Expo
  2. Binge-watched the MCU Defenders series - Daredevil, Jessica Jones, Iron Fist, Luke Cage, Defenders, and finally caught up with all pending Marvel movies (Guardians of the Galaxy and Ant Man, among others)
Second Quarter
  1. Completed all lessons in the first (beginner) unit of French in Duolingo
  2. Launched an SVP goal at work, officially transitioned into a managerial role
  3. Went for a 3-day trek to Dayara-Bugyal
Third Quarter
  1. Drove to Bangalore for meet-ups with several relatives
  2. Read 10+ books in 3 months
  3. Interviewed for a team in AWS
  4. Visited Kolkata right before Durga Puja festivities
Fourth Quarter
  1. Relocated from Chennai to Seattle
  2. Explored nearby places, went on a hike to Quinault trail at Olympic National Park
  3. Signed up for Pure Barre pilates and attended 4 classes
  4. Moved into a new apartment and setup the house
  5. Wrote and published 20 blog posts this year

As I look back at 2022, it gives me a boost of energy and motivation to make wishlist items happen for 2023.

Wishing you all a wonderful and adventurous new year!


Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Board Game Night

#219

Friday nights are now board game nights!

Finally got to learn and play Catan, after having heard about it so much from all my NRI friends. It's nice having known a group of people right from the time we landed so we could start playing all sorts of games from Week 1 itself. Uno, Scrabble, Catan, Exploding Kittens, Sequence, and previously played games we'd learnt at The Board Room Cafe in Mylapore, Chennai. 

Once we learnt the rules and played with them initial couple of rounds, we soon started adding our own twists and customizations to make each game more fun. For instance, adding a couple of characters like Jester, from the online game Among Us into Mafia, and tweaking each round with a different rule, such as each Mafia won't know who the other Mafia is, and more!

Soon, friends of friends started getting added to our little group until we had a large enough crowd of 6 or more to play even more games that required 5+ players that we couldn't play before.

The best part about the board game nights were playing with the perfect group of people who were no only open to learning and trying out different genres of games but were also super competitive, smart, and sporting - we got to play abstract games like Dixit, card games like Poker, strategy games like Azul and Santorini, and Word games like Word on the street and Codenames - both online as well as the actual board game in-person.


Monday, December 19, 2022

Apartment Hunting

#218

We went house hunting in Seattle and Bellevue and visited a bunch of apartments. Here, apartment refers to a house within a building whereas 'house' refers to an independent house, usually a duplex.

Day 1, we visited 3 apartments - the first and the second were older homes, located slightly interior, thus were in quieter neighborhoods and had electric stovetops. We had done 'virtual tours' online, which allows us to walkthrough the house and see what each room would look like, so it was good to see it was similar in person too. Rent everywhere for 2b2b (here instead of 2BHK they say 2 bed 2 bath) was $3500 minimum with an additional $150-200 for utilities (water, electricity, internet, gas if applicable), per month. All kitchens here are modular, meaning they already come with a microwave oven, grill oven, refrigerator, stove top, and a dishwasher. And the apartments also come with a washer and dryer. These things would have to be bought if it were a house.
 
Apartment 3 was much newer - it was a high-rise apartment located near Amazon buildings and in the heart of SLU (South Lake Union). We visited the 19th floor to look at an empty apartment and the 30th floor for a model house. This place had 40 floors, with the 41st being a massive closed rooftop and an open skydeck, with a picturesque view. We liked this place the best - it had a gas stovetop (yay!) and looked the most spacious for a 2b2b with 987 sq.ft. It had the maximum amount of storage, especially in the kitchen, great set of amenities, and felt the most secure. 

One issue we saw in all the apartments here was lack of extra space to keep things, like a loft or an attic. That's one caveat of staying in an apartment vs an independent house, but the advantage is getting help for things needing repair, usually free of charge, done by the maintenance team, whereas in an independent house you are on your own for everything. All the apartments also mentioned that if we wanted to install a bidet (aka health faucet aka toilet spray), we would have to install it ourselves and bear damage costs, if any. 

In SLU, which is close to Downtown, parking charges seemed over the top at ~$250-300 per month! Luckily for us, we like walking and there are a lot of places nearby that are walkable, including the rental car place. A lot of known acquaintances also follow the same and do not own cars due to parking hassle.

Overall a new experience in terms of what to expect when looking for an apartment here. Visited 3 apartments across 2 cities in 1 day - 7-8k steps in total. 


Sunday, November 20, 2022

El Supermercado

#217


Or ‘le supermarché’, if you will.

We have a WFM aka Whole Foods Market, which is two blocks away, and is 30000 sq. ft. huge! We’ve only been there a couple of times now and have to combat decision fatigue every time we visit the store, though it’s getting into a more auto-pilot mode if it’s a repeat ingredient. From the super long aisles to the varied assortment of each type of item to the categories of different items (fresh produce vs processed vs frozen veg) to the self-checkout mechanism - this place warranted at least an hour’s worth of time even if our list only had a handful of items in it. 

The various departments in this massive store included - grocery and produce (fresh fruits and veggies), processed aisles for pureed tomato, soups, and sauces, frozen food (cooked stuff like frozen pizzas, frozen Mac ’n’ cheese, frozen burritos), frozen vegetables (in chopped format), several compartments in the refrigerator for different kinds of cheese, bakery and dairy items (separate compartment for vegan dairy products), cold (fizzy) drinks, and more. There were also body care items, beer and wine aisles, cereal aisle, meat and seafood, vitamin supplements and protein powders, and more!

A lot of the time went in figuring out which of the obscure-sounding regular items were the closest to Indian vegetables. For instance, there were red, white, and yellow onions - all bigger than the ones we get at home (see image for size comparison) - the red ones are the ones that resemble the purple-ish onions we get in India, while yellow onions are a tad sweeter, and white is mainly used for soup (like French onion soup). Similarly with tomatoes, you had tomatoes on the vine (more expensive, but also contained higher water content so probably had to be juiced and used), organic tomatoes, beefsteak tomatoes (one of the largest varieties), cherry tomatoes, slicer tomatoes, and the Roma tomatoes, which is what we identified as the best alternative for our Desi naatu thakkali (tomatoes that are just the right amount of sweet and sour, whether they feature on a sandwich or in a gravy veg or in rasam/sambar). Lemons were as big as oranges, and of course, the corresponding lemon squeezer were bigger too. The Indian lemons are known as limes here, are greener, sourer, and more expensive.

Buying frozen, pre-washed and pre-chopped veggies in order to save time while cooking during weekdays was a good piece of advice we got. It indeed was helpful as I was able to make sambar rice and other similar one-pot dishes with veggies and rice in under 15-20 minutes. The only caveat is remembering to keep the frozen veggies out to defrost for at least 10-12 minutes. 

After 2-3 trips to WFM, we behaved like slightly seasoned shoppers, managing to pick the right kinds of fruits, veggies and dairy from the lot. Yogurt with 1% milk fat in a green container, as opposed to the orange, seemed like the closest to Indian curd, did not try making curd from milk yet due to the subzero average daily temperatures. With the colors, we could also relate to the green vs orange packets we use to get from the milkman, green meaning lower fat or cream content than the orange (blue -> green -> orange -> brown, order of lowest to highest cream percentage).

Another thing we had to newly learn apart from the above was the art of scanning to bill each item, paying for it, and efficiently packing it in bags (each bag costs 8 cents, so we started carrying our own reusable bags). In the self-checkout kiosk, scanning the barcode for labelled items got easier but for fruits and veggies, we had to weigh them on a scale after selecting the right item. It was slightly trickier initially because we kept going back to the aisle to figure out whether the avocados we added to our cart were medium hass, large hass, or organic medium or large hass avocados - each priced differently! Self help is usually the best help, but sometimes we had to ask for assistance, especially when we were blocking the line behind us trying to fumble with things for the first time.

All in all, it felt like a good experience actually going in-person to the supermarket and handpicking each item after 2+ years of ordering everything online via Swiggy’s Instamart. The bonus was an additional ~2-3k steps per visit!    


Friday, November 18, 2022

Gum Wall


#216 



We visited the Pike Place Market recently, which is one of the main tourist attraction spots in Seattle. In one corner, we entered an alley known as the Gum Wall. Inspired by the Bubblegum Alley in California, this brick wall covered in used chewing gum was unintentionally created in the 1990s. Downtowners (and others) would come and “decorate” the wall with their colorful, bubblelicious chiclets!

In 2009, this place was listed as one of the top 5 germiest tourist attractions in the world. In 2015, the Pike Place cleaning authorities spent 100+ hours to clean 1000+ kgs of gum, but people covered the wall almost immediately post the cleanup. As you can see in the photo, might make for a good photo and attraction but might be best to visit there with a mask and get out of there as quickly as possible. 

In conclusion - Ewww! 

Tuesday, November 15, 2022

Kitchen Attempts

#215


Faced with a new kitchen layout since day 1 - daunting but not so daunting. I was excited to try my hand at cooking in a new country with different produce and ingredients. Thanks to a colleague who helped us with an initial lot of Indian items like turmeric, tempering ingredients (mustard seeds, cumin seeds), ghee (clarified butter), tur dal (TIL it’s called ‘pigeon peas’ in English), basmati rice, sesame oil, tamarind, dosa batter, and shredded coconut, we were able to make home food for a few days such as sambar rice, mixed vegetable with gravy, rasam, and tomato onion dal. Going to the supermarket (there’s a WFM aka Whole Foods Market a block away) was also an equally time-consuming task due to the sheer number of choices of every single thing, but let me save that for a different post.

Initial days, it took me almost an hour to figure out what pots and pans to use to cook (we had limited cookware at first) for which item, where to cook each item (there was a grill oven, a microwave oven, the stovetop - gas, not electric, thankfully, and an electric rice cooker), and how long things would take (good to keep enough buffer in case things don't work out or take way longer, which they do most of the time). So, the first day, it took around 50 minutes to cook 1 mixed vegetable, rice, and dal but two days later, I was able to make mixed vegetable, rice, dal, and rasam in under 30 minutes. I went with the same menu to get accustomed to making the same thing in lesser time. 

Apart from the new appliances and veggies, the knifes were slightly different too - sharper, but sturdier. Felt like I was in a Masterchef kitchen operating the cutlery. I was also able to make decent small-ish dosas using a pan (due to lack of tawa/flat pan). We were able to enjoy yummy dosas (see above image) for breakfast for a week with home made molagapodi (aka gunpowder, a dry-spiced powder made from mixed dals and chilies).

Overall, it is slightly different to cooking in India because of more appliances to help with simultaneous prep and more space in this house, but like I said earlier, it takes longer to cook despite the parallelization, probably due to the cold weather.

P.S. I had titled this post ‘kitchen struggles’ but thought of renaming to a more positive word to give myself motivation to keep trying. Experimenting is fun!


Thursday, November 10, 2022

Sirens Galore

#214


One of the things we had to get accustomed to here (apart from pretty much everything else) was the sound of sirens every 30 to 60 minutes. Be it an ambulance, a police vehicle, or a firetruck, involving one of what they call the PD (Police Department), FD (Fire Department), or MR (Medical Response). They all have similar-sounding alarms. 

At first, you become conscious to every siren but over time, habituation kicks in. Habituation, in psychology, is defined as “growing accustomed to a situation or stimulus, thereby diminishing its effectiveness”, or a more technical definition: "habituation is the reduction of a behavioral response to a stimulus after repeated presentations of that stimulus". Even while WFH, people in meetings are used to it by now.

One of my colleagues mentioned that people from the lake front migrated to the interiors during the pandemic, which led to the Downtown area becoming more unsafe in the recent times, perhaps why we hear more frequent sirens nowadays despite staying southwest of that area. 

Fun fact: most sirens have a one-mile radius, but some louder sirens can be heard from two miles away!

Random note:
The washing machine here sings for a while when it’s over. Probably its way of showing happiness for having completed its job! :) 

Stay safe!

Sunday, November 6, 2022

Sleepy in Seattle


#213

After several nights of contemplation, and a year of trying to get a work permit to work in the US, we’ve finally made it! Made the move from a 35 degree Celsius (95 degree F), sunny city to a 50 degree Fahrenheit (10 degree Celsius), rainy, gloomy one. Battling few days of jet lag, “midnights” literally “became my afternoons[2]. Though the entire day looks and feels pretty much the same, we needed to get our sleep times fixed and start working from Monday onwards.

Almost everything’s different - from the size of the dishes to their flavors (yes I’m gonna type in American spelling from now on) to the water to the spellings to the weather to the way people greet each other to the culture and diversity to the prices to the socket type to the driving direction to the metric system and several other things! There are fun parts and there are challenging parts. How to have fun while tackling the challenging parts is the main objective.

In our first week, we tried Mexican cuisine at Chipotle, Thai at Thai Ginger, Italian at Tutta Bella, Pizza at Zeek’s, and a vegan salad at Evergreens. No matter what, Chipotle will always rank #1, in terms of the price, portion, and flavor, probably because of its similarity to Indian cuisine (rice, beans, spices and sauces, spice level, and veggies). We're averaging 10,000 steps a day just by walking to different places - as long as you have your woolen gear on, good shoes, and the will and proclivity to walk, you will enjoy exploring the city. We shopped at Target and WFM (Whole Foods Market), spending the first thirty minutes in bewilderment of new kinds of things like rainbow carrots and new types of fruits and veggies, and the latter thirty fumbling with self-checkout. Well, there's a first time for everything, and following John 16:24 ("Ask, and you shall receive"), we have asked for help, and promptly received useful assistance and gotten by.

Week 1 verdict: so far so good. Accomplished quite a number of things related to house and work setup, meeting a number of people, and purchasing winter wear. Looking forward to a more productive Week 2.


Notes:
1. The title references Sleepless in Seattle, a rom-com movie starring Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan
2. “Midnights become my afternoons” - 2nd line in Taylor Swift’s song ‘Anti-Hero’ from her latest album Midnights


Tuesday, September 13, 2022

APJ ACK


#212


Last week, I read a wonderful Amar Chitra Katha comic on Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam. Here are the key takeaways he had at different stages in his life, and was influenced by various people, who helped shape his life values:


  1. From childhood itself, he kept asking a lot of questions based on what he observed, like - “Why do birds fly”? (This one question fascinated him the most and was what led to him enrolling in Aeronautical engineering in MIT)

  2. He had an immense desire for knowledge and respect

  3. An incident in school where the teacher brought in divide but the students’ parents fostered unity led to all faiths and religions becoming one in his mind

  4. He learnt to earn on the side at a young age by selling newspapers at 6 AM, before school. He worked after school too while his friends spent time playing games

  5. At home, his brother-in-law Jamal encouraged him to learn and answered all his questions patiently while at school and university, he had teachers who pushed him to excel by setting supposedly impossible deadlines

  6. He met a monk in Rishikesh who helped him gain peace - this was reassuring when he grappled with failures of his rocket launches

  7. When a friend saved his life from an explosion, he promised himself he would make his life worthy of being saved

  8. He got the opportunity to meet Dr. Vikram Sarabhai at NASA but it was Prof. Sathish Dhawan (Project Director after Dr. Sarabhai passed away) who showed what it means to be a true leader by taking the blame on himself when the team failed but giving Kalam the entire credit for successes

  9. When Dr. Kalam led a team later in life, he learnt about establishing trust and enabling teamwork

  10. Being a lifelong learner, he lived his childhood dream much later in life of learning to fly an aircraft - and at 74, he was the oldest Indian to fly one

  11. A child at heart

  12. An ordinary man even after being elected the President of India - he once swapped a royal chair, the ‘throne’, with an ordinary one to blend with the common man

  13. He always liked meeting with children because he believed they are the future of country


“Be active! Take on responsibility! Work for the things you believe in. If you do not, you are surrendering your fate to others.”


“The reality of your own nature should determine your speed. If you become restless, speed up. If you become tense and high-strung, slow down.”


“I strongly believe that teachers need to tell students about great lives and make children understand their history and heritage.”



Thursday, August 18, 2022

Life is Like...


#211


Analogies are fun!

At a workshop I attended more than a decade ago, I recall this one instructor asking us to come up with analogies for "life". He'd keep prompting "life is like"? And for each response, he'd ask why?

For instance, one girl said life is like an ice cream. Why? Because you gotta eat it before it melts!

Similarly, to tap into my creativity, I came up with a few of what I think "life is like". 

Life is like... a jack in the box - sometimes it just springs on you!

Life is like... a washing machine - it spins and twists you but you come out brighter

Life is like... an infinite game - there are known and unknown players, the rules keep changing, and your objective is to stay and keep playing


What all do you think life can be compared to? Feel free to post in the comments your versions of "life is like".